Haven't Written In A While . . .

. . . and I apologize to all my Blogger friends and readers! I have not been a very loyal Blogger, so I hope you all can forgive me. This pregnancy can really get the best of me at times and I can, well I have to admit that I can be SO lazy LOL!

I do not have that much new news, but here we go.

Remember the Immigration process I was going through with my ex-husband? (Yes, you read right! EX! I'll explain that in a minute...) Well anyways, he was denied and cannot come back to the U.S. unless he crosses that border himself.

I was a bit disappointed AT FIRST because of ALLLLL the money that was put into the process, but sabes que? That disappointment went away fast and I realized that EVERYTHING happens for a reason. I truly believe that. And I am happy that he was denied.

Now onto the explanation! Turns out his divorce lawyer told him that him and I are NO LONGER married! (as of January 2009!) There is a law in Honduras that states something like since we haven't had physical contact in TWO YEARS our marriage is basically null and void. Interesting, and yet surprising! So right now, I am NOT married!

STILL, since I [stupidly] changed my name here in the U.S., I have to wait for paperwork with an apostille (a special seal so it will be valid here in the U.S.) in the mail and God knows how LONG that will take! But it will be worth the wait! :)

Okay, what else can I tell you? Baby Salazar is doing fine. No names have been picked out yet. We have a list but have decided to keep it private UNTIL the day baby comes, and then EVERYONE will know his name!


Ah, I do have more news, but it is on Cele's side. Remember his situation? The other woman back in Mexico? Well the TRUTH has finally come out. Now we call her his "ex" because she FINALLY knows everything!

Thankfully all she does is yell at him on the phone each time he talks to her to ask to speak with his kids. I thought FOR SURE she might have pulled something like preventing him from speaking with his kids. Thank God she is smart and realizes if she did that, well that wouldn't be too smart of her because she needs his $$$ to help her support those kids.

Do I feel bad for her? Of course! It is NOT her fault, actually it is in a way BOTH mine and Cele's fault. I knew he had another woman back in Mexico, but I let love get in the way, and kept pursuing the relationship on.

But I told him: "Someday Cele, she WILL find out the truth. All of it. Whether YOU tell her, someone in your family tells her, or she just hears it through the grapevine."

And that certainly wasn't a threat. Not at all. That is how life is. You lie, and whether it is a major or minor lie, it comes back. Maybe not right away. It could be a week from when you told the lie or less, or it could be years before the truth comes out. Bottom line: The truth WILL come out.

He acts better now though. I see a change in him, a BIG one. Even though there WERE some obstacles in the way of our relationship, well I couldn't ask for a better guy.


He spent four days with me and my family and his true colors really showed through. He is so sweet and not to mention HELPFUL! Our relationship is 50/50, which I love, and I really am happy. Sure, I might not feel well and need my space at times (as most of us do, right?) but overall, I really am happy. Just have my moods sometimes. But as a Cappy, that's just how it is LOL.


Well, one more new piece of new news! I've been accepted to a new college and even though it is only for 9 months, I am SO excited! I finally get to study Medical Transcription again and after 9 months I will be able to find employment at home! (they have job placement and everything!)

So needless to say I feel as though I am being given another chance and this time I am NOT going to screw it up! :)


Well that's all for now! I hope everyone is doing good and again . . .

Can you PLEASE forgive me? Perdoname? Please?


~Megan :)